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Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Why no news?

5:11 PM
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The Nepal festivals are over and still no word of anything. Our agency tells us nothing. To get me off their back they say they will get back to me "if they hear anything". I know they do not know a lot, but come on, give us something!

There has been some political turmoil in Nepal as of late. To be honest I had let it go and have had positive thoughts that everything was going to work out good for the people of Nepal and those of us waiting. BUT I thought I should post a little for those of you reading this. This was one of the first articles I read about this situation and it lists what the Maoists protest schedule is.

Prachanda sparks torch of protest Last Updated :
2009-11-01 12:11 PM
The Himalayan Times
Himalayan News Service
KATHMANDU:
Pushpa Kamal Dahal `Prachanda', chairman, Unified CPN-Maoist, today kicked off the second phase of the party's struggle to restore `civilian supremacy'. He lit a specially designed torch — to mark the beginning of the nationwide protest — at Old Bus Park this evening, throwing the capital's traffic out of gear during the rush hour. Many scared shopkeepers downed shutters early. Thousands of Maoist cadres took part in the central rally, which was earlier initiated in various parts of the capital like Maha Bouddha, New Road Gate, Bhotahity and Durbar Marg.All prominent Maoist leaders like Narayan Kaji Shrestha `Prakash', Ram Bahadur Thapa `Badal', Krishna Bahadur Mahara and Hit Man Shakya led several torch rallies in and around Ratnapark amid slogans of `People's war is not over'. However, no untoward incident was reported. But the capital's streets were littered with bamboo sticks and doused torches. Earlier this afternoon, Prachanda warned that the government would be held responsible if the Maoists' peaceful protest was suppressed. He made this statement while speaking at a tea reception at his constituency Badbhanjhyang near Thankot. He also accused both the Nepali Congress and the CPN-UML for ignoring the politics of consensus. Maoist CA members, including former minister Lekhraj Bhatta, were injured when the police lathicharged on agitators during a sit-in in front of Singha Durbar.The Maoists plan to impose blockade at all entry points of the valley on November 10.

Maoists' stir schedule
• Nov 1: Nationwide torch rally
• Nov 2: Picketing at VDCs, civic bodies
• Nov 4, 5: Picketing at DAOs
• Nov 9: To declare autonomous republican states
• Nov 10: Blockade at entry and exit points in the Kathmandu Valley, include the airport
• Nov 12, 13: Picketing at Singhadurbar

On ekantipur.com dated 11/3/09 It was stated that "Following pressures from the foreign diplomats in Kathmandu, a meeting of the Maoist leaders this evening decided to withdraw the party's plan to picket the TIA, Maoist leader Shakti Bahadur Basnet said."

The TIA is the Tribhuvan International Airport. This was good news. So far the protests have been peaceful. There is still a threat though. Maoists picketed DAOs across Nepal today which blocked gates and employees from entering their place of work. We hope the Ministry of Women, Children and Social Welfare is not being affected by these protests.

AAAAhhhhh!!! I pray for peace in Nepal. I pray for the children, the orphans. I truly pray for those waiting to hear of their travel plans. I know I am so impatient and we have only been waiting 6 months. Others have been waiting years and I think of those families often.

We hear from friends in the wait that the political situation should not affect the adoption process. I know the Ministry is trying to get more adoptions completed by the end of the year. I still wonder where we are in line. I keep hoping that we will have a referral by Christmas--what an awesome gift that would be, but I am realistic too. I hope that our son will be with us by mid next year for sure. We have not seen enough referrals go out to make any sense out of the process.

We wait some more...

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

My Love for Nepal

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Throughout this past year that we have been waiting in our journey to adopt from Nepal, I have been reading a lot about Nepal and adoption in general. Prior to choosing Nepal as the country our child was born in, I knew nothing of beautiful Nepal. I am not even sure I could have told you a year ago that Mount Everest was in Nepal. I am embarrassed to say that, but it is true.
I am now amazed at how this country has grown in my heart. Not just because I know it is the birth country of my son, but because it is truly a grand country. The rich culture, beautiful landscapes, and the meaning of family and friends to the Nepali people is why I have grown to love it so much.
I cannot say that I would have thought about Nepal if it had not been for this journey. I know that God has a perfect plan and his plan for us was to adopt from Nepal and to be connected with this country. Now I blog to tell all I can about this country and the need for adoption!
I cannot wait to meet my son! This will be the most special and blessed day of our lives. I also cannot wait to see what the future holds. My hope is that my family can travel to Nepal with us at least once when we bring our son back to visit his birth country. A LOT of things go through a person’s mind when waiting in the adoption process...

The picture below is (sorry not a good quality photo) a photo from National Geographic and I use it as my desktop photo. It is an absolutely beautiful photo. It is how I picture everything outside of Kathmandu. I realize it is from 1977, but it is still how I picture it there. If you want to see how beautiful the photo really is go to the National Geographic website and search for "Nepal 1977".


Sunday, October 25, 2009

Last week was a rough week. I could not wait for the weekend. Then the weekend came. I payed bills and put together a kind of budget to see where and when we would have the rest of the money for the adoption. For some reason I have been paying way too much attention to money and I have been getting stressed about it. I just want to have our next payments ready and in the bank. Once we get a referral we have to have $9700 and the post placement fee of $2400. It doesn't help that our cat Romeo had to go in for emergency services last weekend. I wouldn't have had it any other way but to take Romeo in but gosh, I had no idea how my mood would be affected when I saw our savings account.
We went to church this morning and it is exactly what I needed. The memory verse for this week is Luke 12:31--"He will give you all you need from day to day if you make the Kingdom of God your primary concern."
This has been quite an issue for me for many years as I have let my thoughts be consumed by this adoption. I do know that he will provide. He always has and always will. I need to refocus my attention to reaching people for Christ!

Nepal Tidbits:
Nepal's population is 29.5 million
Kathmandu's population is 1 million
UN Human Development Index: 142 out of 177 countries
Life expectancy: 62 years
Nepalis who live on less than US$2 per day:82%

Last week there was no news coming out of Nepal. Will there be some news this week?

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

I thought the last day of Tihar was October 19th, then I read on the web that some were saying it was October 20th. I figured the source I took it from was wrong until I saw on Nepalnews.com(written on Tuesday, October 20th) that…

“The people of Newar community are celebrating Bhai Tika, the main and final day of Tihar, on Tuesday. The other Nepalis, however, celebrated the same occasion on Monday.
As the Newar community observed ‘Mha Puja (worshipping one’s own body) yesterday, they are celebrating Bhai Tika today.
This is the first time that the final day of Tihar, Bhai Tika is being observed on two days.” Nepalnews.com

This might explain why I couldn’t find a definitive answer on the web.

Well either way, the festival is over and there is no word of anything, not a peep, nothing...waiting...

Where are they from?

   

Our furbaby Romeo, is no longer with us.

Our furbaby Montie