We are Tim and Shelly and we are on our journey to adopt a little boy from China.

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Thursday, December 16, 2010

We ventured out a little yesterday (it's already after midnight, Friday, the 17th). We got up for the day, logged onto all of our email accounts and such. In doing so I fried our converter. It sparked up my arm, and smelled burnt. At first we did not know what appliance it was, our new portable dvd player, Tim's work laptop or mine. It blew all the power to our room. A hotel service lady came up and could not fix it then a maintenance guy came up and did fix it. Whew!


Finally we got out of our room and went to have breakfast, American breakfast. :) (sorry Eric we are not adventurous!) We went to talk with the tour company within the hotel to set up our tour for today. We are going to the Great Wall Badaling and the Ming Tombs. Tim loves to ask questions so we were probably there an hour. He made them laugh so much. He would ask questions and they would not understand and then they would all giggle behind the desk. We got a kick out of them laughing at us. Hee hee.

We walked around our hotel, went to the Silk Market, where we only bought some kids DVD's that we can play for Caleb that are in Chinese. Guiyou Department Store, walked down the main road for what seemed like forever just taking in all the sights and sounds.  Again, traffic here is incredible.  There is always traffic.  It is 12:30am and the main road is just outside our room.  The cars zooming by and honking is again, incredible.  We cannot imagine what it was like here for the Olympics.

We came back to the hotel to put some goods in the room and then ventured down to the subway to go to Tienamen Square.  It was an adventure.  We were stared at a lot.  The policeman the security people here wear the long dark green coats and fur hats.  It is very formal and there are a lot of police on duty.  We spent about 4 hours getting there walking around and talking to some Chinese people that knew English. 

The first lady came up to us and knew we were looking at how to get back on the subway.  She asked if she could help us.  She knew a lot!  We took it all in, but knew there was another motive.  When we said we needed to get going she said that she volunteered at the Xi'an University with art students and she would like us to come and visit their gallery (just inside the Forbidden City gates).  We did and loved the art!  We knew we were going to get suckered into buying something though.  We bought two scroll art pieces.  The student that created them was there.  If we were to believe what was being told to us, this was like a donation to the student to help them study abroad and make more out of an art career.  I have to say we learned a lot in this conversation.  We learned what some of their characters mean.  We did not buy anymore but will be looking for a few items while in China because of this interesting adventure.

We finally got on our way and crossed the street (which means go under the street in a tunnel) and went to stand on Tienamen Square.  I had learned and remembered about Tienaman Square and Chairman Mao from History in school.  It was neat to just be standing there looking at his photo across the street.

We got back about 5 pm rested a little and then headed out to find food.  We ate at the Pizza Hut in the hotel.  Wow, that was an interesting menu.  They have all sorts of Chinese cuisine on the menu.  I felt like having pizza so that is what we got.  I could not keep my eyes open so we headed back to the room and fell asleep, hence why I am awake now!

We will get up this morning and go downstairs to hop on a mini bus to go tour the Great Wall and the Ming Tombs.  We will be gone from 7:50am to 6:30pm for that, so I will not be posting.  I may not be posting until we get to Xi'an.

We leave for the airport to Xi'an tomorrow at 10:15am.  Our flight leaves at 12:30pm and arrives at 2:30pm.  Okay, I am going back to bed.  Here are some photos....






Wednesday, December 15, 2010

We are in Beijing!

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We arrive in Beijing at 4:10pm.  Then we had to go through all the gates and ride the tram to the baggage claim.  We found our hotel driver right away and he brought us to the hotel.  It took over an hour to get from the airport to the hotel!  Traffic is unbelievable, but you know what is more unbelievable?  The driving here!  They know how to do it, but it is so much different than ours.  A little scary at times, but Tim and I just sat back, laughed and tried to soak it all in.

We just got the computer all logged in and secure.  Tim could not sleep on the plane at all.  I think he watched 4-5 movies so he is trying to sleep now.  I, on the otherhand, did mostly sleeping on the plane.  I did not get sick for most of the flights, but when we landed here, oh, my, I could not wait to get off the plane. 

I am sitting here in the hotel room by the window that seems like it is open.  There is still a lot of traffic and it is 7:50pm here.  They honk a lot too.  We will do our best to enjoy our time.  I am not sure what tomorrow will bring.  We wanted to do a tour, but we will see, we may just walk around the shops here and take in downtown for tomorrow--we will see.

Good night from Beijing!

Love,
Shelly




Saturday, December 11, 2010

It's Almost Time!

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We received a Consulate appointment of December 28th (my sister's birthday!)  We leave Minneapolis on Tuesday the 14th and arrive in Beijing on the evening of December 15th.  We will most likely settle in this evening, get something to eat if needed, and get up the next day, the 16th to do some tours.  We do not have anything set so that day we may need to do the tours on our own.  Then on the 17th we have all day to do more sightseeing and this day we will do set tours.  We are not sure if we will do the private tours or the public tours. 

We then leave on the 18th to fly to Xi'an, the province Caleb is in.  We do not know times of what we are doing within the province yet.  We will receive these tickets once we are in Beijing.  Since we are not sure when we fly to Xi'an and when we arrive we do not know if we have time to do anything or if we will just be going to sleep.  Then on the next day, Sunday, December 19th, we meet Caleb!  We will take him right when they hand him to us and from there we are parents!  We were told that we most likely will go back to the hotel and "get to know eachother".  We will be bringing lots of toys, little ones of course.

The next day, the 20th, is considered a paperwork day.  It will be challenging because we will have just met him and then we need to sit and wait all day for different appointments.

Then on the 21st, 22nd, and 23rd we wait for Caleb's passport,adoption certificate and other notarized documents.  During this wait we will be able to visit the Terra Cotta Warriors, Great Wild Goose Pagoda and other things as we choose.

Then on Christmas Eve we will get Caleb's passport and will leave Xi'an to fly to Guangzhou.

Christmas day we will get his medical exam done and visa photos taken.

December 26th we will sightsee and shop!

December 27th Caleb will get his TB test read and then we are on our own to do what we want.

December 28th our paperwork is submitted to the US Consulate and we take our oath.

December 29th- a free day

December 30th we get Caleb's visa at 4 pm and head for Hong Kong late in the evening.  We will stay in Hong Kong for the night just to sleep.

December 31st we head for home--We are really excited and nervous for this trip, but we also know that we can't wait to be home and start settling into our new normal.

We thank everyone that is helping with things here while we are gone.  We wish you a Merry Christmas!

We love you,
Shelly and Tim

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Joanna

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I need to update this with what has been going on, but first I want to make this post about Joanna.  So in a previous post I told you that there is this amazing person, Joanna, that we met through this process.  We learned of her right when we put in the LOI for Caleb.  Let me back up...I have met a lot of truly amazing ladies through this process and I hope to meet some of them in the near future.  These ladies helped us learn more about Caleb in order to make the best decisions.  Of course this was God's plan all along that we would meet him.


Okay, back to Joanna...we had heard about her when we first saw Caleb and learned that she just wasn't ready to meet us (there is another part of the story, but that is between us and Caleb).  I prayed...prayed a lot that her heart would be healed and that she would want to meet us.  In my mind, I just wanted to be able to have her be the first one we told that the adoption was completed.  She loves Caleb, I mean really loves him and we hope to have her in our lives and Caleb's life forever.

One night we received an email from Joanna, it was Sunday October 10th.  She introduced herself and told us all about her history with Hanzhong where Caleb lives.  I printed out the email and read it to Tim and we both had tears, of course I was down right crying.  It was so special.  She lived in Hanzhong.  She moved there in October of 2007 to teach conversational English to students at the university.  While teaching she would visit the orphanage.  She would visit every time that she could.  She would help feed the babies and play with the children.  In 2008 her and Caleb bonded pretty well.  As time went on the orphanage allowed her to take him home with her for a weekend and needless to say over time they grew really close.  She came back to the States to further her education in mid 2009.


She went back to Hanzhong in May of this year to visit and was able to be with Caleb every morning she was there.  She was able to go there again over Thanksgiving too and sent us the video in the previous post.  She sent us the photos below as well. 

She was praying that Caleb would be "adopted by a family that loves the Lord with all their heart and have a desire to serve Him in everything they do".  Wow, God works in wonderful ways! 

So this is just a little bit about Joanna, but I think you can gather how involved she has been with him and how much she loves him.  The blanket and bear were something Tim and I bought and sent to Joanna before she went to China to bring to Caleb.  She had the ideas of what we could send and it turns out they were excellent ideas!  He loved each of them.
 














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Our furbaby Romeo, is no longer with us.

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